Pegging

Pegging is where a woman wears a strap-on and uses it on a man. This can be very erotic for both parties, it can be role reversal, allow the woman to explore dominance, even allow the man to explore his bi-side. However, at the same time, just because a man enjoys anal play with a strap on, doesn’t necessarily mean he is gay or bi-curious, it may just mean that he enjoys role reversal or female dominance.

There are different types of strap-ons. The traditional type is harness based which slips on like underwear and then can be adjusted to make it secure. The dildo attachment usually comes with different sized interchangeable rings so you have the ability to attach different sized dildos. Some harnesses come with an internal pocket where the female can insert a small vibrator for extra enjoyment. There are also strapless versions where the dildo has an end which is inserted into the female so it is held by the vagina  rather than wearing a harness.

So how do you do it? I suggest you follow my guide to anal, as pegging is essentially the same as anal with a penis just with a dildo instead. Lots of lube, start small and slow and work your way bigger. May be useful to use a condom on the dildo to help with cleaning, however not essential as long as the dildo used is specifically for use on that person.

The main challenge that most people face is positions and height. So to think about it seems easy, but in reality it can be quite challenging, especially if the man is taller than the woman. Until now you will have been used to what positions work for you so this is a whole new journey of discovery. Common positions that may work are doggy style, bending the man over the bed or the man on his back with legs in the air. However it will depend on the couple, flexibility and height. You will only find out what position works for you by trying it out.

From a personal experience, my man loved it, and I found it very erotic. It stimulates the male g-spot giving a completely different experience of sex for both parties. Maybe not something I would do every sex session.. but definitely something that I will be doing on occasion for my man’s enjoyment and to keep things exciting.

Kink x

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